Each one of us have our own demons. Our self voice that keeps on rebuking us ,frightening us ,threatening us,discouraging us These demons of us decide how we behave in our lives and how our destiny shapes. Once we win over these we win over ourselves But how many times in our life instead of defeating these demons of us ,we waste our energies in struggling with the demons of others .
Instead of winning over our weaknesses we indulge in being subjected to the insecurities of others and give ourselves the brunt of it . When people behave with us unkindly it is not because we deserve it but it is because they aren't capable of doing anything otherwise .If somebody is loving to us we are not the cause of that love in the same way if somebody is hurtful we are not the reason behind that . But how surprizing is this, that we feel bad and make ourselves suffer for the wrong judgements of others .If they are a victim to their demons then why do we have to fight with those demons and prove ourselves right Wouldn't it be better if we can free ourselves from the reactions which others evoke in us. The simplest way to do that is to stop taking the responsibility for what others did to us. By stop being humiliated if somebody belittles us ,stop being sad if somebody disregards us ,stop being judgemental on ourselves if somebody is biased against us . If we free ourselves from the shackles of the deeds and expectations of others just imagine will there be any cause of misery left ??